After years of working with ADHD kids (and raising one myself!), I’ve seen what truly makes a difference. And spoiler: it’s NOT just about “trying harder” or “being more consistent.” Here are five things I wish every ADHD parent knew: 1️⃣ Your child isn’t being difficult on purpose. ADHD is a brain-based condition, not a behavioral choice. Impulsivity, forgetfulness, and emotional outbursts aren’t about won’t do—they’re about can’t do (yet). 2️⃣ Discipline won’t “fix” executive dysfunction. No a